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Jul
30

A Blessed Man

Posted by: Matthew Dykstra | Comments (1)

Hello,

It is 10:19 and as I sit here I am Watching “Touched By An Angel” and just began to think about all that I have going on in my life. I am such a blessed man right now. More blessed then anyone person can ever be.

I have met the most incredible gal a person who has kept me more grounded in the last few months then I have ever been. I am so blessed to have a gal that is so encouraging of my hopes, dreams and ambitions. A Gal who when I need to talk listen, when I need to vent is there, When I need advice gives it honestly. I am a very lucky man.

You Know Something This is the first year I have taken any meaningful holidays since I started to volunteer at the church in 2006. I was thinking about that and since 2006 I started in the fall so that don’t count, then 2007 I spent the summer cleaning up the family center and getting the new sound system in order, Again 2008 I worked at the church and took care of my grandmother so mom could have a holiday. For 2009 I took two weeks but I moved from Oshawa to Whitby and so this year I had an opportunity to do something with the family and did.

Speaking of Lucky I am also lucky to have an awesome family. I have never had more fun with them then I did in the last week. From camping, to paddle boats, to a night in a hotel nothing else could be better. I have never seen a family so connected with each other in all my life.

I know so many people who’s families are distant, broken or just plain in need of help. I know of some relationships like that also. A Very special person in my life calls my family “The Fairy Tale Family” never ever understood that but some day I will know

Now as for what is going on that is not so good in my life.. My health is not so good in the last two days I have had massive headaches, fibromyalgia flair-ups and just general pain. I have just been taken it easy and not doing anything. I don’t know if I over did it over the holidays but… I want to be ready for the next adventure.

But as this entry like all of them are getting long I will try and wrap it up. I am hoping this fall to have a regular up-date once a week. But we will see what happens

Till Next Entry

Categories : Family, Friends, Life, Ministry
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Jul
25

Greetings From Owen Sound

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Greetings from Owen Sound,

Here I am finally taking some time off and spending time with the family.. My Parents, My sister and even the kids came along for this trip. It has been an exciting journey. At first I was not going to bring my laptop but when I heard that dad was bringing his I broke and brought mine.

So far we have had an amazing time. We have not done that much but that is what traviling for me is all about just sitting around and doing nothing. So I put my churches live feed on and began to type.

We are right now in a private camp ground and just enjoying the morning sun. What beauty is all around us that we miss when we are in the city I truly am enjoying myself and just loving the time I can spend in the nature and with the family. What could be better nature, the church live and my laptop.

I do miss each and everyone of you back in Oshawa and all though this is a short trip I will be back on Monday Afternoon and back to the grind.

C U All When I Get Back

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Feb
23

Handling Your Own Affairs

Posted by: Matthew Dykstra | Comments (0)
This entry is part 19 of 19 in the series Self Improvement

Hello,

You might be asking yourself, what is with all the writings this past month and really I don’t know either. I am starting to wonder myself and it is because my spirit is stirring. There has been a lot going on and a lot that has been happening.

This past week I have decided to go back to getting up early every morning (5 out of 7 days and 1 afternoon a week) and get into 2 hrs of quality time with the Lord. I decided that it was time to get my house in order. It is like the apostle Paul said in 1st Timothy 3:4-5 he said

5 (If anyone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of God’s church?) (HSCB )

For if someone is unable to handle his own affairs, how can he take care of God’s church? (MSG )

5 (for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?); (KJV ) (NKJV )

For me this was a big passage. It got me to thinking that I really need to get alot of things done and get my life straight. For the past little while it seemed to me like things were getting out of control in the spiritual side. I had ask the Lord to keep me in the hidden place. I wanted everyone else around me to be put into the lime light so to speak. Well he said to me are you sure? I answered yes! He reminded me to be careful what you ask for.

Well he did it. So many times I have seen things that I thought they will ask me to do that or Pastor Derek will mention me in a sermon and BAM! It gets turned to someone else. I started to get up set and the Lord reminded me that you asked for this. I began to realize why I asked for this and started to get things in order.

The first thing I did was setup a calendar on Google and started to plot out my days so that my time with The Lord, Family and Friends were made avail. I then began to look at my ministry stuff and plot all of that in and realized I spend a lot of time at the Church , None the less I know that is where I am called to and will stick to it.

After all of that was done I realized that I still did not have enough time in there for the Lord one full afternoon a week was not enough. A prayer here a prayer there was Good but flair prayers don’t always get the job done.

Pastor Derek was teaching a series on Persistence and Diligence and talked about how he made 2 hours a day for the Lord and how that changed his life. The Lord reminded me that you used to do this. What happened to you?, Where are you my son?

So that was it! I now every morning except Tuesdays and Wednesdays get up at 5:00 – 5:30 and prepare to spend 2 hours a day with the Lord.

Now before you ask what about Tuesdays and Wednesdays, well it is like this Tuesdays my mentor has set aside for me to spend the entire afternoon in prayer and studies so that morning is free for me to get ready to come for my ministry day at This Generation and Wednesdays is my 7th day that is the day I go visit my parents, see my grandmother at the nursing home and babysit my sisters kids Lilly and Ivy (see photo on front page ) nothing interrupts that day.

How has this changed my life? well let me tell you this much, there is nothing like putting on the IHOP Live Feed and praying along side the worship and hearing what the Lord would have me pray into for my life, my friends, my family, ministry and yes even my mentor

You should try this! You do not have to do it like me but if you cannot get your own house in order how do you expect to help in the church or even mentor to others. We need to keep God first in our lives and we need to remember the important stuff in life.

So I will leave you with this thought from Matthew 16:26 it says “For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?” (KJV )

Till Next Entry

Categories : Embassy, Family, Prayer, Questions
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Dec
20

Christmas Fun

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Here is My Mother Spending Some Time With My Sisters Little Ones Lilly and Ivy Sining Jingle Bells

Categories : Christmas, Family
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